You know I wasnt gonna write on this one about this but of course fuck it.this past weekend was very busy and full of party invites that we had to miss one of them and go to the other 2 that we had made plans for,that being said I looked up the word awkward cause the most awkward thing happened to me,I sat at the same table next to a girl who I went to school with but the only different thing on that was that not only did I not like her but we actually fought each other.yeah I know right!!??!! but as we all know crazy shit always happens before you have kids so as the adult that I am I decided to start up a simple conversation with said girl.turned out okay which then I realized that the hubs was talking to another(kids were(my kids)acting an ass in the bounce house)girl and as soon as she turned I was like hell theres another one yes people 2 girls who didnt like me way back when.but this one was way far away from me so it was okay,that one I would of kicked her ass!!! but anyway weekend turned out great and we had a ton of fun and a ton of drinks:) what I was to write ....
I have come to terms with the people around me family mostly and Ive learned that when I really need people to be around for support and such no one is ever around,Ive learned that when MY family needs helps everyone always has an excuse to say no to us, and because of all of that Ive learned along time ago that the only people I need in my life are my 4 babies and my husband.Dont get me wrong it hurts to know that we have no help but again they actually do us a favor,if and when things were different I dont know how close or together we'd all be.I would like that alot but you know shit happens.I have and will continue to tell my husband that the only family he needs is us,his wife and kids.anybody else can go to hell,we'll all see each other there anyway.Family is very important to the hubs,not so much to me(only mine matters)and it breaks my heart when he tells me that "no one loves him" he'll ask why? and at times I have no answers to give him.but babe we will be okay with or without them!!!
I needed to get that off my chest and agin Thank You Blogger for allowing me to do this.
XOXO Carol
you were in a girl fight in school?
ReplyDeletewow...girls fight nasty!
I am right there with you on this one. I could give a shit less about a lot of people. Fmily usually finds themselves at the front of that line. Why? Because they know when, where and how hard to push our buttons. Fuck 'em. I don't have time to play their games or a reason to put up with their shit.
ReplyDeleteOh and I ran into a girl from high school a while back. She was a waitress in a bar we were eating at. Boyfriend asks why I didn't say Hi to her? I didn't like her then, what makes him think I would like her now?
There are "girls" that I hated in High School in my friends list on FB. One actually fucked my boyfriend. I grew up. They grew up. And two of the girls and I have very deep heartfelt conversations about life. We've never said anything about the hateful things that happened in school. Looking back never helps... move forward.
ReplyDeleteAhhh family...I am one of seven kids and there's one sister who I can count on to be there for me, and I'm there for her. I agree...I have my kids and my boyfriend and truly they are all the support I need.
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